Oceans Of Sadness 1995 - 2011
This was the official website for Oceans of Sadness, a progressive metal band from Belgium, whose last show before the breakup of the band was on 10/06/2011.
Content is from the site's 2002-2011 archived pages.

Enjoy a nostalgic trip back ....
Fuckin' Hell!
Welcome to the official Oceans of Sadness website!
We are a fairly progressive metal band from Dessel, Belgium. So far we've realeased three albums and our fourth album, tentatively called "Mirror Palace", is just about to go! (You can find some soundclips in the music section of the site). There's also a bunch of gigs booked so make sure to check our tour schedule!
As a band we're trying to expand the borders of a metal scene that some pricks claim has come full circle. Well, think again! Oceans' is a blend of a lot of metal styles and also has a lot of influences from the world outside of heavy metal. Probably that's the way you as a listener work too!
So another "Fuckin' Hell!" from Belgium and check back soon!
/ Oceans of Sadness
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!!!UPDATE ON FINAL SHOW!!!
Date: Friday 10/6/11
Location: JC Spin (we’ve set up a tent in front of the youthcentre!), 2480 Dessel (BE).
Door open @ 19:30u.
Entrance Fee: 5€
Kick-off Thurisaz: 20:30u
Kick-off OOS: 22:00u
Afterparty @ JC Spin @ midnight!
Your last chance to dance so BBBEEEEEEE THEREEEE!!!!

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Oceans Of Sadness 1995 – 2011
BANDSTATEMENT FEBRUARY 2011
Dear friends,
First of all we want to thank all of you for supporting Oceans Of Sadness during these last 15 years.
Thanks to you we had the chance to do a lot of cool things, much more than we ever dreamed of 15 years ago…
During these 15 years we’ve never really tried to be part of any particular scene musicwise and our image has always been the last thing we cared about. Creating our own sound and writing original and inspiring metal has always been our only real goal and we are proud of the road we travelled during the 5 albums we recorded, with “The Arrogance Of Ignorance” being the last one, released in 2008 on Scarlet Records.
We are really proud of all our music and we ourselves have always believed that we kept getting better and better at what we wanted to do.
But now we feel that our story may have been told…. Theoretically we could easily go on for another 15 years… but we won’t.
We feel time has come for us to relax for a while and who knows what happens in the future… I’m pretty sure all of us will continue making music, maybe together, maybe seperately, but more important is that we all have the feeling we can now close this chapter of our lives with pride and dignity.
We’re not the kind of guys to close a door and throw away the key forever, not at all… however, we don’t have the intention to come back in this shape in a few years either… music is about creativity and challenging yourself and right now we feel we got stuck in some sort of routine for quite a while now… we lack the energy to record yet another album, again negotiating with labels, just to end up with another deal that only costs us a lot of money, followed by a few shows… We’ll see what happens in the future, like with everything in life: nothing is certain…
On a positive note:
To celebrate the end of Oceans Of Sadness in style we decided to leave the scene with a blast and do a special last show.
The date and other details will be released when all is certain.
Thanks for everything! We hope you will enjoy our music for many years to come!
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How Cauwie became a father
Yesterday afternoon Tom, our guitarist, became a proud father of a beautiful baby girl named Layla. Congratulations Tom!
This also means that tonight’s show in Antwerp (BE) will probably happen as a 5-piece band instead of a 6-piece… we’re not sure how this will work out exactly on stage but we figured this option is …cooler than canceling the show, no?
As a baby present the boys and I decided to look into buying one of the round pillow dog bed designs we found online figuring it should be about the right size for a newborn yet still have room as the kid grows. And then later it could be used as a pillow, foot rest or at the appropriate time for an actual small sized dog. Of course the dog bed we are looking at are the round pillowy sort which would be more comfortable as a pillow than one of those dog beds that looks like a miniature bed or has sides. Sides might be better for a newborn, though. Oh, well, we'll figure it out and send a gift as soon as possible. Congrats, Tom.
Hope to see you there!
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A small step…
For these 6 suckers it’s a small step from both Progpower Europe as Progpower USA to Frietrock @ frittur ‘t Festijn in Retie… we got invited by a long-time fan who also happens to be a friturist (
) to play in a tent next to his workingplace. And fulfillers of dreams that we are (ahum) we, of course, said yes. Let me remind you of the following: this show is in Retie… the one town where absolute mayhem on OOS-shows is a common thing so put on your kneecaps and helmets… be prepared for WAR
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!!! 4 DECEMBER: Frietrock, Frituur ‘t Festijn (Retie, BE) !!!
BUTBUTBUT, before that you can see us on saturday, November 27th @ a fest called “Antwerp Metalized” @ Zaal Kavka in Antwerp, together with Battalion and others…. BEEEEEEEE THHHHEEEEEERRRRRREEEEEEE!!!!
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Progpower USA, here we come!
We sincerely hope that the citizens of Atlanta (US) and surroundings are ready for OOS because we surely are ready for them!
The festival is completely sold-out and WE ARE PSYCHED!
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Little update
We thought this might be a good time to give you guys a small update about what’s going on with OOS these days.
First of all: we survived the Graspop Metal Meeting once again, and how! We were the opening band of the whole festival and we had the luck to play a pretty tight set for a completely packed tent. Heads were banging and fist were thrown from the front to the back… it was awesome! Downside was that we were planning to record a live-album… but we failed
human errors combined with some technical ones… ah well, no real harm done, we’ll try this again pretty soon I guess ![]()
People have send us some cool fan-footage as well which you can check out on YouTube. Special attention to the tribute we did for Peter Steele from Type O negative. I payed we did him honour in a good way…
Up next is continue writing new songs (which HAVE to be epic, we are VERY eager to work on new stuff and make it the best we did so far!) and at the same time preparing ourselves for the next shows. We hope to see you there!
Black No. 1 Oceans of Sadness GRASPOP 2010
Pride & Shame @ GMM 2010
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OOS celebrates 15 years of existence @ Graspop Metal Meeting 2010
Great news friends!
Oceans Of Sadness is invited to kick-off the Graspop Metal Meeting (BE) in 2010!
As you know we celebrate our 15th year of existence this year and so does the Graspop Metal Meeting!
So what’s cooler than celebrating this by kicking-off the festival this year?
This will be a show for the early birds though (Friday 25th of June from 11.30hr ’til 12.10hr) so be there in time if you want to check us out (no disadvantages like staying sober all day for us either
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We’ll be playing a special set containing songs from all 5 albums we’ve released so far… some songs we don’t play often so it’ll be worth it for the real fans and followers of OOS, we promise!!!
Get your tickets asap and make sure you’re there on time!
PS: funny detail: statistically we now have the high-score of playing @ GMM together with Iron Maiden with 6 editions in total… budgetwise it’s a whole different story I’m afraid BUT know that the band will also fly over with our own airplane … one made out of paper but still
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To those who were there last night…
THANK YOU VERRRRRY MUCH!
We had the time of our life and if we saw correctly, so did you!
The place was packed and the spirit of the evening was nostalgic yet fucking intense!
Some black eyes and teeth flying in the air… rock ‘n roll!
See you soon, we won’t give in yet ![]()
Some fan-filmed-footage :http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=6-fzqRMc9UI&feature=email
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-10 years – For We Are – celebration tomorrow
Quick reminder because this will be way more fun than you can imagine!
Tomorrow will do a special double show in our hometown Dessel @ JC Spin. Only 5€ entrance!
First we’ll play the entire For We Are album, our debut from 2000, and after that we’ll do a second set filled with songs of the 4 other albums, a lot of songs we haven’t played for a long long time so it’ll be equally exciting for us as well!
We’re ready! Are you?
| 07/07/2004 | The 16th of July Oceans will start recording the last part of the new album. After the recording there's still a lot of work to do (mixing, mastering, ...) but we hope to finish this in august. Then we hope to find a label... or we have to release it ourselves... It took a long time but the end of the road is nearby, so be prepared! |
| 01/03/2004 | Last week Tijs suffered a collapsed lung. He was hospitalised for one week, and for the moment he recovers at home. The gig at Wervik had to be cancelled for obvious reasons. Thanks to Manic Movement for replacing us. |
| 26/01/2004 | Oceans of Sadness would like to thank all the fans (also those from Holland and France) who made the effort to come to the Biebob to support the band. The goal, to raise enough money for new bass-equipment for Bert (after it was stolen), is reached! It was a good show and a cool audience that night... |
| 26/01/2004 | Oceans of Sadness is about to record 4 more songs for the upcoming album (at Midas Studio, Lokeren). A few months ago they already recorded the first 3 tracks... so the new album is taking it's form as we speak and it's going to be fucking heavy! The plan is to go back to the studio once more somewhere in the upcoming months to record the final tracks. Hopefully the release will see the light without much trouble, although there aren't much labels signing these days. Some titles are "Precious Gold, Two Voices, Wild Mysterie, Who's in Control?" |
| 17/11/2003 | Waterwölves-benefit, an evening with Oceans of Sadness and Ashmolean + Waterwölves dj-set (afterwards Metal-party) + special prices! (due the fact that some asshole recently stole Bert's bass-equipment) First band (Ashmolean) at 20:30 hr. Biebob, Vosselaar |
| 25/09/2003 | New gigs online, check the Upcoming Gigs section. |
| 12/05/2003 | As already confirmed on the Graspop-site, Oceans of Sadness will play at Friday 4th, starting at 15:35 hr. There's a big chance we will try out some new material. So be there and get drunk very early !!! |
| 12/05/2003 | V. Doors, a small word of appreciation : "Thanks to all beer-drinking, headbanging & ass-spanking males & females who gave me a great time for the past 7 1/2 years !! I slept less, damaged my brain-cells, drank an incredible amount of beer and other spiritus, I spent a big part of my life amongst 5 ugly metal-lovin' bastards... but still, I enjoyed it. Keep on rockin' in the beer world !!" |
| 07/04/2003 | The Guitar will soon be switched from Deurz' shoulder to Cauwie's one. Check out the gig part on this site. |
| 26/02/2003 | Since a few weeks already we're rehearsing with the new guitar player. Tom "Cauwie" Van Cauwenberghe (also in Essatic) joined our ranks, promised us to support Interbrew and never to be sober again. We'll keep you informed when he plays his first show with OoS. |
| 07/08/2002 | Soon the first Waterwölves-project will be realised ; A compilation-cd will be released, featuring 7 Belgian MetalBands each performing 2 songs. Keep up with the latest news in the "Waterwölves"-section. |
| 19/07/2002 | Lyrics of the latest album "Laughing Tears * Crying Smile" today been added. Also confirmation that the band will play at Eurorock, Lommel (B). |
| 02/07/2002 | "So Close" (also check out the video-section) will appear on a compilation CD of the Dutch Label, Suburban. Release of this CD is expected later on this year. |
| 01/07/2002 | New site finally online, as promised before !! Hope you like it. Check out the new sections & the forum. |
| 15/06/2002 | Official release date of "Laughing Tears * Crying Smile". By now you should be able to find the album for sale in most record stores throughout the Benelux. |
| 25/05/2002 | CD-Release Party at Biebob, Vosselaar (B). Thanks to all for coming !!! We hope you enjoyed it as much as we did. Thanks to Panchrysia and Cantar for playing. |

More Background On Oceans of Sadness
Between 1995 and 2011, Oceans of Sadness stood at the forefront of Belgium’s underground progressive metal scene. Their official website, OceansOfSadness.com, served as a creative hub for the band’s music, tour updates, and community engagement. The site mirrored the band’s personality — intense, unfiltered, and deeply connected to its fan base. Though the band disbanded in 2011, the archived pages of their website remain a fascinating record of a group that refused to compromise its musical identity, even as trends shifted around them.
Origins and Formation
Oceans of Sadness was formed in Dessel, Belgium, a small Flemish town that would later become synonymous with Graspop Metal Meeting, one of Europe’s biggest metal festivals. The band’s founding lineup included Tijs Vanneste (vocals), Tom Van Cauwenberghe (guitars), Wim Melis (drums), Bert Davidse (bass), Hans Claes (keyboards), and Anthony Van den Eynde (guitar). Their musical mission was clear from the beginning: to create emotionally powerful and progressive music that transcended typical genre boundaries.
The band described themselves as “a fairly progressive metal band from Dessel, Belgium,” but that modest phrasing undersold their ambition. Oceans of Sadness blended multiple styles — doom, death, thrash, and progressive metal — while also weaving in atmospheric, melodic, and even classical influences. They often said they aimed to expand “the borders of a metal scene that some pricks claim has come full circle,” signaling a defiant creative streak that became their trademark.
Website Identity and Purpose
OceansOfSadness.com launched in the early 2000s and quickly became a central meeting point for fans. Long before social media dominated band-fan interactions, the website functioned as a full-fledged community hub. Visitors could find:
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Tour dates and show updates, often written with tongue-in-cheek humor.
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Studio reports, sometimes including candid details about recording sessions or setbacks.
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Lyrics, sound clips, and music previews, including early versions of unreleased songs.
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Band statements and personal messages from members, written in a conversational and often self-deprecating tone.
The tone of the website was distinct — raw, humorous, and authentically “metal.” Posts often opened with the phrase “Fuckin’ Hell!” — not as an act of aggression but as a statement of excitement and camaraderie. It captured the band’s refusal to sanitize their message for commercial appeal. Their fans responded in kind, building an unusually loyal community for a band of their scale.
Rise Through the Belgian Metal Scene
Throughout the late 1990s and early 2000s, Oceans of Sadness gained traction through local shows and metal festivals. Belgium, the Netherlands, and Germany had a strong underground metal circuit, and the band leveraged it to develop a devoted European fan base.
Their first full-length album, For We Are (2000), marked a significant milestone. It was a confident debut that merged heavy riffing with introspective lyrics — a theme that would persist throughout their career. They followed it up with Laughing Tears, Crying Smile (2002), which showcased a more refined sound and lyrical maturity. That album’s release party, held at the iconic Biebob club in Vosselaar, became a landmark event for fans, symbolizing the band’s entry into Belgium’s professional metal echelon.
During this period, their website chronicled everything from gig cancellations and health updates to equipment thefts and benefit shows — all presented with the same transparency that fans found endearing. For example, when bassist Bert’s gear was stolen, the band used their site to promote a benefit concert to replace it, directly thanking fans afterward for helping meet the goal.
Touring and Live Legacy
One of the hallmarks of Oceans of Sadness was their intense live energy. They were regulars at Belgium’s Graspop Metal Meeting, one of Europe’s most prestigious heavy music festivals, appearing multiple times between 1998 and 2010. In fact, they proudly joked that they held a “high score” of six Graspop appearances — tying them with Iron Maiden in terms of number of participations, though, as they humorously admitted, “budget-wise it’s a whole different story.”
Their performances were known for emotional depth as well as technical precision. A highlight came in 2010, when they celebrated their fifteenth anniversary by opening Graspop with a career-spanning set that included songs from all five of their albums. Fans described the show as “nostalgic yet fucking intense,” a testament to the unique chemistry that characterized their final years together.
They also appeared at ProgPower USA in Atlanta, representing the Belgian metal scene to an American audience. Despite limited touring resources, Oceans of Sadness maintained a cult following that extended far beyond Europe, due in part to the global reach of their website and fan forums.
Recording and Creative Output
The band’s discography reflects consistent growth and ambition. Their albums include:
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For We Are (2000) – A debut full of promise, balancing aggression with introspective songwriting.
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Laughing Tears, Crying Smile (2002) – Showcased improved production and stronger songwriting cohesion.
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Send in the Clowns (2004) – A darker, heavier, and more theatrical turn.
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Mirror Palace (2007) – A deeply layered concept album that merged progressive structures with emotional lyricism.
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The Arrogance of Ignorance (2008) – Their final album, released through Scarlet Records, widely regarded as their creative peak.
Throughout their run, the band recorded primarily at Midas Studios in Lokeren, collaborating with Belgian producers who understood their balance between heaviness and melody. The members frequently discussed in posts how difficult it was to find labels willing to invest in unconventional metal during the 2000s — an era increasingly dominated by commercial metalcore and nü-metal. Their decision to push ahead despite these barriers reflected both stubbornness and artistic integrity.
Philosophy and Musical Vision
Oceans of Sadness often wrote about alienation, self-doubt, and the search for meaning in an indifferent world. Their lyrics were introspective without being pretentious, often balancing despair with resilience. In a 2011 farewell statement, the band admitted they had “never really tried to be part of any particular scene music-wise” and emphasized that creating something “original and inspiring” had always been their goal.
Musically, they were adventurous. Songs shifted effortlessly from brutal double-bass drumming to ambient keyboard passages and melodic interludes. Their willingness to experiment — incorporating piano, clean singing, and complex rhythm changes — made them pioneers of Belgium’s progressive metal movement.
The band’s humor was another defining feature. Even when announcing serious matters — such as injuries, equipment thefts, or lineup changes — they maintained a tone that combined dark wit and optimism. This gave their communications, particularly through their website, a human and approachable touch.
Fan Interaction and Digital Culture
Before Facebook, Twitter, and Bandcamp transformed how artists reached their audiences, OceansOfSadness.com served as a comprehensive digital identity for the band. The site included a forum, where fans from Belgium, the Netherlands, and even North America gathered to discuss albums, share concert photos, and swap bootleg recordings.
Their posts often read like journal entries rather than PR statements. When guitarist Tom Van Cauwenberghe became a father, the update appeared on the site alongside a humorous anecdote about bandmates debating whether to send him a round dog bed as a baby gift. It was precisely this unfiltered personal touch that fans remembered most fondly.
Their openness prefigured the kind of artist-fan intimacy that would later define social media engagement. Oceans of Sadness may not have had the marketing power of major label acts, but they built something rarer — an authentic online family that lived and breathed their music.
Recognition and Collaborations
Despite being fiercely independent, Oceans of Sadness earned significant recognition within the European metal press. Outlets such as Metal Hammer Benelux and Aardschok praised the band for their musical complexity and authenticity. They shared festival stages with major acts like Iron Maiden, Arch Enemy, and Type O Negative, and even performed a live tribute to Peter Steele after his passing in 2010 — a gesture widely applauded by fans.
Their 2008 release The Arrogance of Ignorance was distributed through Scarlet Records, a respected Italian label known for signing genre-bending metal artists. The album received critical acclaim for its lyrical sophistication and layered production, though the band later acknowledged that record deals were financially draining, contributing to their eventual decision to disband.
The Farewell and Final Show
In February 2011, the band issued a heartfelt statement announcing their decision to end Oceans of Sadness after 15 years. They expressed gratitude to fans and reflected that while they could have continued indefinitely, they felt their story had been told. They noted that “music is about creativity and challenging yourself” and that they had begun to feel stuck in routine. Rather than risk creative stagnation, they chose to close the chapter with pride.
Their final concert took place on October 6, 2011, at JC Spin in Dessel, with local band Thurisaz opening. The event was described as a celebration rather than a funeral — a night of nostalgia, laughter, and heavy riffs under a tent set up outside the youth center where they had once rehearsed. Fans traveled from across Belgium, the Netherlands, and Germany for the chance to see the band one last time.
Afterward, the members pursued various musical projects, but the spirit of Oceans of Sadness — that mix of melancholy and defiance — continued to influence younger Belgian musicians.
Legacy and Cultural Significance
Oceans of Sadness may not have reached mainstream fame, but within the European metal underground, their legacy remains secure. They represented a generation of musicians who valued integrity over exposure, community over commerce, and art over trend. Their website documented this ethos in real time, creating a transparent record of the highs and lows of being an independent metal band in the pre-streaming era.
They also played a key role in legitimizing Belgian progressive metal as a serious artistic movement. Alongside bands like After All and Axamenta, Oceans of Sadness helped elevate Belgium’s reputation from a peripheral market to a breeding ground for innovative metal.
Culturally, their impact extended beyond music. They were early adopters of web-based fan engagement, proving that even without label support or radio play, a dedicated online presence could sustain a meaningful career. In many ways, their use of OceansOfSadness.com foreshadowed how bands would later rely on digital platforms for independence and fan connection.
Oceans of Sadness remains one of Belgium’s most compelling contributions to modern metal. Through a blend of emotional honesty, technical musicianship, and dark humor, they crafted a sound that transcended genre and geography. Their website, OceansOfSadness.com, was more than just a promotional tool — it was an extension of their creative identity, capturing every laugh, setback, and triumph from 1995 to 2011.
Though the final curtain fell with their farewell show in Dessel, their influence continues to ripple across the European metal landscape. In an era where authenticity is often overshadowed by hype, the story of Oceans of Sadness stands as a reminder that music, at its best, is not about fame — it’s about truth, connection, and the courage to be yourself.